Vital Things Young Women Lose To Fun And Excitement At Their Early Age Due To Their Choice Of Men. | Alex Oduanam's Blog...

One thing that has often got me wondering about the sanity of average woman is the manner in which they  too often to waste what I might describe as the bloom of their lives. Too often young women between the ages of sixteen and twenty one or twenty three are attracted to perpetual male bums. It amazes me how such young women who seem otherwise bright enough fail to see that dating such men can only spell problems for them in the present and some times in the future also. I have observed with amazement and found a certain pattern to be true of young women as they start out in the dating world. When a young woman gets to the age where she starts to feel attraction for members of the opposite sex, she usually starts out falling for the loud, abusive, popular, insensitive and selfish men. Why? Beats me!

This trend usually continues well into the university days. Usually when such young women are approached well behaved, reserved, quiet sort and academically serious minded young men they are turned away and sometimes ridiculed by these women.

The excuse some of these women give for looking down on such men is that they find them boring and unattractive; some say they are too serious minded and no fun. As one young woman puts it, ‘’such men don’t have action’’.

However years later and sometime towards their final year in the university and after graduation it is amazing to note how the ‘boring’, ‘unattractive’ young men now become the darling of the same class of girls who saw them way back then as not being ‘their type’.

The reason for this change of heart by lots of women is simply; they now discover that their partying, clubbing and tripping guys don’t seem to have any serious plan for themselves or be capable of providing the security they now start to see as being vital to their future. Suddenly the boring, overtly serious minded and organized gentleman they dumped or wouldn’t give an audience to yesterday now becomes the darling of today.

While I can understand the average woman’s attraction to excitement and adventure especially at the earlier stages of their lives, which I suppose is the reason why they said women find these bums attractive I nonetheless find it somewhat disheartening that too many women take things too far in the pursuit of fun and excitement at this stage of their lives. I think its sad that too many of these women lose their virginity to men whom they know would never be around for the long haul all in the name of having fun when in actual sense their virginity should be a gift to their lawfully wedded husband on their wedding night.

Conclusively, while the younger women tend towards excitement in her earlier years of dating, the more matured, older and marriageable aged women tend towards stability and security…

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Alex Oduanam

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