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ONE OF THE MAJOR REASONS WHY RELATIONSHIPS DON’T LAST LONG THESE DAYS…

LACK OF TOLERANCE
Have you heard about the word tolerance? It works like magic in a relationship. And you cannot undermine or avoid it if you are aiming for a lasting and successful relationship. Tolerance is said to be the willingness to accept or tolerate somebody or something, especially opinions or behavior that you may not agree with, or people who are not like you.

In a relationship, you must not expect everything to always go your own way. Everybody must not behave like you do. For a relationship to work out effectively and last longer, you must learn how to tolerate other people’s attitudes and behaviors and also accept them willingly the way they are and be patient enough to see your desired change or error corrected, because time they say healed all wounds. Patience they say is a virtue.
But today a lot of people lack the virtue of endurance and patience. They can't just be patient to see their desired change or error corrected. They walk out of relationship as if they are walking out of an eatery which lacks excellent service.

The same way we change our Church simply because we met the pastor's wife on the way to the Church and she couldn't stop to give us a lift. We also walk out of relationship because our so-called lover forgot our birthday, ‘’same way he did last year’’, and she starts thinking "how can I marry a guy who will always forget my birthday?"
She call it a sin that cannot be forgiven, and then she moves on from one guy to another searching for that perfect guy who has no single error. That guy who knows how to give ladies a nice treat on daily bases, a ready-made guy, a guy of her dreams.

This same thing affects guys too. They jump from one lady to another. Busy doing what they call sampling and tasting to see the best taste available. When a lady finds herself in the environment of sampling guys she would continue to experience disappointments. They date her not for marriage but socialization for that given period.

Today, ladies appear to be very cheap, the only thing it would cost you to sleep with them is to promise them marriage. Once you promise them marriage they will jump at you. When I say jump at you, I mean jump at you with everything. So it becomes trade by barter, sex giving in exchange for marriage promise. Some ladies are just too desperate and vulnerable.

Guys today are cruel and exploitative. They hunt for vulnerable ladies and after they have gotten the best side of her they dump such for the next prey. They aren't ready for marriage but dates. Dating is merely a packaged word for sampling; no commitment, no sacrifice, no passion.

These days nobody is willing to endure nor tolerate any negative attitude the partner in a relationship, thereby end up falling into wrong relationships where the partner will pretend to do everything to please the other just for the mean time. What then do you think will happen after marriage? Think my dear, there’s no perfect relationship anywhere, there’s no perfect lady or man anywhere. If you say you are searching for a perfect man or lady, then I bet you dearie you will never get married. Learn how to tolerate the one you have, and continue to love him or her truly and selflessly without expecting anything in return, I promise you one day there will be change…
Thank you for reading.

DISCLAIMER
The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam





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