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In this article I will go on to outline six different types of men that appeal to the female mind set and that are actually quite successful with women. Hopefully as you read on you will find the category to which you belong and also find out how to work on your personality to help you in becoming more attractive to the woman of your dreams.

WEALTHY MEN

Wealth has always been a major attraction to the average woman. Due to the inert desire in women for security the average woman is drawn to wealthy men like ants are drawn to sugar. The present day reality of our nation’s economy does not really help matters as the absence of decent or well-paid jobs coupled with the high cost of living makes money so much more an issue today than it was in the past in relationships between men and women. A combination of wealth and charm tends to even produce a greater response from women.

They said, I don’t expect us men to go out of our way to suddenly get rich. Only a narrow minded, insecure, and out rightly stupid man will go as far as engaging in unwholesome activities or will go as far as stealing to try to please a woman.

Here is the catch, women are attracted to wealth or opulence but money can’t buy true love. Like I said in some of my previous articles, money only makes the reality and experience of love a more pleasant and enjoyable one; it can’t create it.

The truth is that men want to be attractive to women so what do you do if you are not already a money bag or really rich? If you are not rich already it’s not very likely that you will win the lottery by morning.

Fortunately for those for those of us who don’t have all the money in the world there is one quality which all the women find attractive and which all men have; they just need to develop it and find tune it to reach it’s mega attraction potential. Keep reading, we’ll get to that quality later on.

INFLUENTIAL MEN

Wealth often brings influence but not always. In addition you can have influence without really having all that much. Men in positions of power or leadership tend to wield influence within the organization or environment where they hold their position.

A pastor of a church might not necessarily be very wealthy with regard to monetary or financial gains but he will still wield a lot of influence among his church members and sometimes in Christendom as a whole. This is probably one reason why it might not be a good idea for a pastor to remain single for too long especially when he heads a congregation because the single women in that congregation might get carried away by the strength and influence of his position and might end up making his job of pasturing the church that much more difficult to handle. Other examples of influential people are TV personalities, actors, known civil right activist etc.

FAMOUS MEN

Women tend to respond strongly to fame; if you doubt me, watch the average woman reacts when she is watching a popular or international musician or entertainer perform on stage.

Why do some women love Usher Raymond? If you ask them some will say it’s because he is such a good dancer while others will say that it’s because he is so good looking (and these things do tend to be powerful with women) but I think the most likely reason and perhaps the most obvious is simply because he is famous.

Having said this, I guess everyone loves a winner so it’s not like it is only women that are attracted to fame; even men are too.

EXCLUSIVE MEN

Women sometimes find exclusivity an attractive quality when it is associated with a man. Top of this list is royalty or elites. If a woman reasons that a man is rare breed or that he is one of a kind her attraction for him tends to increase.

An example is the royal kingdom. There can only be one king and one queen at any given time so it is natural that whenever the opportunity arises for a woman to meet and build a relationship with the prince who is next in line to the throne, she would very likely experience greater attraction for the man; in this case, the prince.

Another example is the first lady syndrome that operates in many democratic styles of government. Most women would give their arm and leg (well almost but I think you get the drift) to be the president’s wife. As a man you can use this observation to your advantage in the bid to attract your dream woman. You should learn to act like you were exclusive-like an important personality. While I don’t think you should overdo it but I think that healthy amount of ‘exclusivity consciousness’ would do you some good and help you appear more original and appealing to your dream woman.

GOOD LOOKING MEN

Well it turns out that men are not the only ones who enjoy or appreciate good looks, women also appreciate and feel attraction for good looking men.

As it is, we really all don’t look the same and some men are better looking than others (apparently). So what do those of us who are not exactly as good looking as our other brother men do? Fortunately, I’ve got the answer to the next question and here it is; read the next point. Really; don’t stop. Just keep reading.

MEN WITH POWERFUL PERSONALITIES

Now here is what I regard as the master key to unlocking the heart of the woman of your dreams-a powerful and confident personality. Well that is the easy part; knowing that that you can actually win the heart of your dream girl by developing your personality. Now comes the hard part; finding out what sort of personality really impress women and working on yourself and your personality to become that kind of person.

For starters, confidence is very powerful with women and most of the other qualities I will be talking about later will be tied to confidence in one way or the other. I know this because I have tested it in my own life and have actually observed it work with other men who are successful with women. Women expect a man to take charge of their relationship and to some extent, of their future together and if you act like you are not sure of yourself or that you lack confidence in yourself she will begin to doubt the quality of the leadership that you will display as a man in and out of the relationship you seek with her. The amazing thing is that women actually pick up on these signs early on; in fact within minutes of conversing with a man for the first time.

Work on your confidence level and build yourself esteem. Read self-help books, read motivational books and make sure you read the bible which is the book that is most likely to give you the true picture of your self-worth. You are worth the blood of God’s only son; that tells me you are priceless and more valuable than you could ever imagine.

Finally, you might have read more articles on what pulls off with women. This article is not written as an answer to all the questions about how to get along well or better with the women folk or primarily as a dating or marriage know how. This article is simply intended to give you a head start and to get you up to speed on some of the more relevant issues and the steps you can take to get a better deal from your relationship with women…

DISCLAIMER

The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam

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