6 Things Women Need In A Relationship...

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1.       VALIDATION

Women crave validation, they need to feel some sort of assurance from their man that what they feel is real, what they think is acceptable, what they do is appreciated and that they are perfectly functional and complete women. Every woman has a need at some level to be desirable and validated by her man. A man’s acceptance or rejection of his wife can go a long way to boost her self-esteem or to greatly diminish it.

2.       APPRECIATION

The truth is that I am strongly of the opinion that women actually do tend to do more than their fair share in keeping a relationship and marriage successful and happy. That said, I think it’s only fair that women get some appreciation for all the effort and sacrifices they put into keeping things the way they should be. Appreciate your woman, show her you value her contributions, show her you love and care for her.

3.       LOVE AND ATTENTION

Everyone needs love and women in particularly crave the undivided attention of their man. If there’s one thing I have about women it’s that a man who has little cash or material possession but who gives a woman sufficient love and attention will most often win her heart in the stead of another suitor who has little time for her but who spends large amounts of money on her. Take it from me, women love attention, they love to feel like they are the center of your world. While not every woman will trade wealth and comfort for attention, no woman can truly be happy without attention.

4.       COMFORT

While it’s true that money can’t buy love I must point out here that women nonetheless do love comfort. Women by virtue of their nature love the easy life. They love having what they want when they want it. The more of such comfort a man can provide for his woman the more appreciative she will be of him. At this point, you may be tempted to wonder at which is more important to a woman, attention or comfort. The truth is that while both are important to a woman the decision of which is more important to any woman in a given situation will depend on her personal values or convictions and on her upbringing and on the influence of society on her family background.

5.       COMMITMENT

A woman wants to know that her man will always be with her and be there for her for the long haul unless off course when she is not the serious minded type. Women generally have to turn away many would be suitors during their single or courtship days in preference of the man they believe to be the one and this necessitates that such a man who is chosen shows a healthy level of commitment to the relationship. Even in marriage a man must describe from time to time that his commitment to his woman is unquestionable, irreversible and that he is totally committed to her.

6.       SEXUAL GRATIFICATION

While a debate on who enjoys sex more could easily ensure here, this is one debate that I’d rather not engage in. the important thing to note here though is that women also feel a strong need to experience sexual gratification with their husbands.

-Taire Stephen