6 Signs Of A Collapsing Relationship...

Every aspect of human life travels through hills and valleys. Relationships are not exempted. Falling in love can be sweet but that sweetness may be forced into a breaking point depending on the decision of one of the partners especially the man. He may not necessarily tell you of the plan but if you see any of the following signs in his/her behavior, you know that the person is about to call a quit with you soon.

1.       When he/she is more critical of you: If your partner has always been supportive and loving but suddenly becomes critical of you unnecessarily it is likely that he/she is no longer interested in the relationship. In other words, whenever your partner is repeatedly criticizing you, you need to sit up and take notice of a break up.

2.       He no longer spend time with you: If your partner who was once eager to spend time staying with you now tells you that he/she is busy with work or other prior engagements it shows that he has a terrible thing to tell you later. Or if he/she seems to be actively looking for excuses for why he cannot be with you that is obviously one of the clear signs he is going to break up with you.

3.       When he/she doesn’t call you on phone for sometime: Constant communication promotes a romantic relationship while a breakdown in communication diminishes it. So, when your partner has ceased to call you or communicate with you just know that the end is near.

4.       When he/her initiates unnecessary hot arguments: Some partners like to argue with their mate unnecessarily especially when they are no longer interested in the relationship. For the men, they will even resort to beating the lady because their heart has departed from them.

5.       When he/she forgets your important dates of celebration: In a healthy relationship both partners are always eager to anticipate each other’s birth days, vacation dates, leaves and the like. But if your partner tells you he/she did not remember such a date when it comes to the time of celebration, it means the person is no longer there for you.

6.       When your partner begins to compare you with his/her Ex every time: When a guy or girl who has been deeply in love with suddenly begins to compare you with his/her former boyfriend or girlfriend, it shows that you have become a worse alternative.

The strongest sign of a collapsing relationship is that, most sour relationships go with all manner of abuses. It can happen to dating or married couples. It usually starts slowly and grows to an unbearable proportion. It could be emotional or verbal in nature. Emotional abuse is when the abuser tries to manipulate and controls the victim by hurting the feelings with one form of behavior or the other while verbal abuse is the use of harsh words to maltreat the partner at any given opportunity. The man may even go as far as insulting the family you come from. He may even be enjoying beating and torturing you. this totally goes to show that there is loss of love which is practically the super glue of every relationship.

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In the face of all these signs you must work hard to see how the first love can be restored. But if all your efforts prove abortive in the end you have no option than to call it a quit. Get yourself reinforced for better days of love. After all when one door closes another one opens.

DISCLAIMER

The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam

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