DISCOVERED: Top 5 problems commonly found among ladies living together. Find out why a lady cannot live together with her fellow lady without having issues...

THE TOP 5 PROBLEMS COMMONLY FOUND AMONG LADIES LIVING TOGETHER. FIND OUT WHY A LADY CANNOT LIVE WITH HER FELLOW LADY WITHOUT HAVING PROBLEMS…

Many keep wondering why ladies cannot live together in peace in a given apartment without quarreling, despites how lovely and peaceful they may seem to be with other people outside. Listed in this article are some of the problems that arise when it comes to a lady living together with her fellow lady;

1.       JEALOUSY: This is the center of all their problems. Jealousy seems to be the most common problem you can find amongst ladies who stay or live together. This has caused series of problems among the ladies, ranging from quarreling to fighting, both indoor and outdoor fight.

Some ladies take it from the physical to the spiritual, trying to inflict pains on the other. World statistics has proven that women are the most uncontrollably jealous being/creatures ever lived. A woman can be very jealous, she feels so angry or unhappy when she sees someone she likes or loves so to say, showing interest in somebody else. Just imagine what could happen if that ‘’somebody else’’ is her friend or sister she is living together with. A woman can be very jealous if she sees her friend been so lucky and succeeding while she is not. She starts feeling or wishing she was the one succeeding. In such situation, any little mistake by the lucky can result to something else because of the anger. But I so much love the ladies because they are so real and so natural. Once they are truly in love with you, they love you for real. But once they happen to hate you, they hate you real good. The problem I see with them is how to control their emotions at times unlike men. I wish all the ladies will continue been their real self, acting like women but think like men.

2.       SUPERIORITY: This is one attitude or behavior of ladies that doesn’t have part two. They can form! ‘’guys dey learn work where this categories of ladies dey’’. Superiority is an attitude or behavior that shows that you think you are better than other people. The state or quality of being better, more skillful, more powerful, greater etc. than others. Superiority is very common amongst ladies. When a lady starts displaying this attitude of superiority, know it that they will not always agree with themselves. When one start feeling too big to associate with the other. You hear something like; she is not my class, why should I bring myself so low to sit and chart with her. Or something like; she should be the one apologizing to me. When she knows very well she is at fault. My dear with all these you are bound to have problems.

3.       FOOD COOKING AND DOING OF OTHER HOUSE CHORES: You know ladies can quarrel over meaningless things, things that when you hear it you will feel like flogging them with a cane. Imagine two grown up ladies quarreling over house chores. For instance; ‘’I cooked yesterday, why didn’t you cook today?’’ she cleans the house today and will be expecting the other to clean tomorrow, and if she fails to do it, that becomes a problem. If you are very close to ladies that live together you will understand what i am saying. You will find out that these ladies don’t cook, probably so that the other person will not eat or maybe the other lady is supposed to cook but failed to. Most ladies battle with chronic ulcer disease because they don’t eat when they are supposed to, in the name of I cooked yesterday and she is supposed to cook today. They end up eating biscuits, sipping garri and living with beverages alone. It will also interest you to know that the homes of ladies that live together are always very dirty because of complains; I cleaned the house yesterday she has to clean today, even if the other lady is occupied, the don’t seem to understand themselves thereby leaving their home very dirty. No wonder they say ‘’all that glitters are not gold’’. You will see some ladies dressed and looking so beautiful, very radiant, smelling very nice with good designers spray. Don’t be carried away by her beautiful apparels. Try visiting where she is living, my dear you will throw up (vomit). What your eyes will see, your mouth will not be able to speak of it.

Dirty cloths, dirty plates that have been used and kept for weeks in the kitchen will be the order of the day. Don’t even dare going close to the toilet else, you will contact a disease you will spend your whole life savings to cure. Why won’t there be problems??? I think UNDERSTANDING is the main problem between the ladies.

4.       GOSSIP: Ladies and gossip are like bread and butter, though I have noticed that some jobless men are beginning to take over gossip from the ladies Lolz. Some things they share in private, or things they know about the private life of their fellow, they sit to discuss it in the public with other people. This is one of the things that cause most of their problems.

5.       BEING AUTHORITATIVE: Always feeling like she is the boss, addressing her fellow authoritatively with a very high tone. Exercising power, and commanding other ladies, expecting others to always obey and respect her. What do you think will happen if the other fellow is the type that doesn’t like people talking to her anyhow or shouting at her for no reason??? They can never be peace between them at all. Ok, what if they both have this authoritative attitude? Who will want to obey another? If ladies can start thinking like men and also learn how to understand themselves, I assure you they will live happily with one another. ‘’But women wahala plenty no be small’’. This is just a little of their numerous problems.

Thank you for reading.

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Amen.

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The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam

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