Six (6) Things You Must Do to Overcome Sexual Seduction - Alex Oduanam...

6 POSSIBLE WAYS TO OVERCOME SEXUAL SEDUCTION...

First all you must understand what sexual seduction is, because you cannot fight to overcome something you don’t know. I published a post last time about a guy that couldn’t resist his aunt because he never understood what sexual seduction is and how to defend himself from it. Before he knew it, he has already had sex with the aunt which lead him to a very big problem. The aunt was pregnant for him.

So therefore, understanding what you are fighting is one and most powerful tool to start with. Even the bible teaches us that wisdom is the principal thing, in all your getting, get understanding. That simply shows that understanding is a treasure.

UNDERSTANDING WHAT SEXUAL SEDUCTION IS: Sexual seduction is said to be an act or ability of driving, persuading and inducing someone into having sexual intercourse or pleasure with you. It has to do with some clearly constructed enticements, inducement, manipulations or control when practicing seduction. The art of seduction has become one of the most powerful tools to achieve success in this generation of ours. People use it to achieve success in relationship, job, marketing, business, family, marriage, academy, sex etc. in fact virtually everything you can think of. In this article, I am going to highlight the six (6) possible ways you can be sexually seduced and how you can be more alert, aware, and watchful in order to overcome it.

1.       UNDERSTAND THE EFFECT OF DRESSING: All dressings has an effect, and it registers a particular purpose in the minds of every human. Lets say, if you see how  a lawyer dresses, you don’t need anyone to tell you that this person is a lawyer. Likewise the pastors, doctors, and so many other professions you can think of. So also is a seducer and her dressing. That’s why the first thing to understand is how a seducer dresses, only then will you know his or her intentions towards you.

Some counselors might advise you to pretend when you see this kind of seductive dressing as if you don’t know the person’s intentions. My dear, ‘’person body no be firewood o’’. you have feelings and you can be attracted to an opposite sex at anytime, sometimes due to how seductive they dress. You cant just pretend not knowing what is happening because you cannot separate the object from the mind. You must guard yourself against it. Since you’ve understood, and you can almost tell when or if a person wants to have sex with you through his or her dressing. Why then will you act or pretend like you don’t know what the person is up to? There’s nothing wrong for you to rebuke the person at first instance. When I say rebuke, I don’t mean you should start casting and binding o. what I mean is you can correct, tell him or her politely: ‘I don’t like the way you dress, am not comfortable with it’. If the person does nothing about it, my dear if you can, send that person away from your side. But if you cant, flee as fast as possible.

2.       UNDERSTAND THE EFFECT OF KISS: I see people ignorantly play with kiss this days. Some people use it in form of showing an appreciation to one another. ‘’You hear something like thank you very much, you are a darling, you deserve a kiss’’ and they will give a kiss and sometimes a hug, wrapping their arms around you and squeezing you very tight to themselves, making sure u feel the touch of her breast if it is a lady. If it is a guy, he will hug you and send his hands to your buttocks.

My dear, I must tell you the truth. You shouldn’t play with these at all. When a lady or a guy kisses you, it’s a signal that he or she wants to, and is ready to have sex with you. There’s a great seducing effect in kissing. So if you want to overcome seduction, you must not flirt with kissing.

3.       UNDERSTAND THE EFFECT OF FREE GIFTS: In the world we live in today, sorry to say 80% of we men today cannot present a gift or render help or favor to a lady without having the intentions of asking for something in return. Ask our young ladies today about men that buys them phones or other gift items or give them money without been worked for it, (even those that worked for it) at a long run what do these men ask of them. If they are sincere enough they will tell you the truth. Ask our young ladies that go searching for jobs what they see out there from men before getting a job. Sometimes they end up been used by this men without getting any job. The end up taking advantage of our young ladies unnecessarily. It has become a trend that a man will want to have sex with a lady before considering to help her in any way. Go to the school environment and ask our female students questions, you will be very surprise to hear what they are going through from lecturers if only they can open up to you.

Know it today from me that free gifts can always lead to sexual favor or compensation, though not all but like I said earlier, statistics have it that 85 to 90% of opposite sex cannot present free gifts without having something fishy in mind towards you. It is truly said that ‘’gifts blinds the eyes of a man’’. Too many gifts from an opposite sex may have sexual intentions behind it. The painful part of it is that before you may realize yourself, you might have become another sexual casualty.

Free gifts have a great seducing effect and it can make you submit easily to sexual pressure from the opposite sex who gives the gifts. I keep telling our young ladies that 90%ss of men will not do anything for them today without having in mind to demand for something in return. Be cautious, wise and sensitive not to fall for free gifts.

4.       UNDERSTAND THE EFFECT OF FLATTERY WORDS: The bible has already analyzed how effective spoken words are. Right from creation, words has become the most powerful tool and weapon in the human community. Now we are dwelling on flattery words in this article. Ladies, how do you feel when you dress and come out looking very beautiful. And a man looks at you and say ‘’ you look sexy baby’’? Then you smile at him, at that moment, you feel like you are the most pretty woman on earth, you feel like you are on top of the world. These words sink into your mind and get you thinking of it.

My dear, hear it from me today, flattery words are like arrows that pierce into your human will, mind and emotion and it makes you vulnerable to sexual practice, immorality and filthiness.  When you are getting too many praises from a particular opposite sex, watch it! Understand that not every word you hear is genuine heart-felt expression. Hear me today that flattery words can lead you sexually astray. Sometimes they will use sexually motivated conversation to lure or seduce you. Be smart and wise.

5.       UNDERSTAND THE EFFECT OF DANCING: Kudos to our ladies on this one. They are very good at using this very strategy to lure any man who is not careful. If you don’t want to be sexually seduced, my brothers don’t go dancing with ladies. Dancing has a very powerful effect in the human emotion and it can influence our heart greatly. Men are not left out of this one though. Men are only inspired to dance when they see ladies on the dance floor that is when you will see them jump onto the dance floor after they must have soaked themselves with alcohol. Imagine a man dancing with a lady and he is busy rubbing every part of her body, pressing her buttocks, her breast and so on. Please what sort of dancing is that or what is it called? This can lead to sexual seduction, before you know it you are already a prey so be smart and be wise.

6.       UNDERSTAND THE EFFECT OF EYE CONTACT: My brothers and sisters, eyes are the greatest doorway to seduction and lust. People have been charmed and captured into sexual immorality through eye contact or long gazing. The one that annoys me most is when you are in the church and service is going on, the minister is preaching and people are jotting down things from the preaching, the Holy Spirit is busy blessing people. But one brother is by the corner looking at one sister. Probably maybe she is a new comer, and the brother is busy looking at her so that when she turns he will have an eye contact with her. My guy, angel Gabriel is soaking your cane in pepper solution.

Know it from me today that when someone is looking or gazing at you too much seductively, mostly an opposite sex, you need to know that there is a sexual seed they want to transfer inside of you.

Conclusively, having an understanding of the different strategies of sexual seduction is a major key to achieving success in this our sexually infected environment. Follow and understand this six (6) possible keys and am sure you will definitely overcome sexual seduction. Above all, fear God. For the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom…

Thank you for reading.

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The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam

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