The 14 Perfect Tips for a Successful Dating and Courtship...
THE 14 PERFECT TIPS
FOR A SUCCESSFUL DATING AND COURTSHIP…
Dating simply refers to a romantic meeting that has been
arranged with an opposite sex that you would like to have as a lover, wife or
husband. Don’t forget that dating must start by having someone in mind to
approach. I mean the person that attracts you or the person your heart is
‘melting’ for.
Research has shown that 70% of dating exercises end up in
casual relationships while 30% or less ends up in marriages. Whichever way it
would go you must not forget that dating is a period of watching someone
whether he/she is a good material for a relationship or not. This is why you
must endeavor to behave well during the exercise. Places to visit during the
exercise maybe public restaurants, amusement parks, seminars, dinner parties,
sporting events, hotel lobbies, beaches or any other places of interest.
Wherever it maybe, the following tips can make your dating successful.
1.
Don’t always desire to be taken to the most
expensive place in town because your guy may not be a millionaire, and chiefly
so that you won’t look too expensive to go out with.
2.
Dress casually but modestly when going out on
your first date. In all, ensure that you are attractive in whatever you put on.
3.
Don’t take your date to where you know you will
meet your ex because the old memories may spoil your day.
4.
Don’t order the most expensive item on the menu
for ordering sake. Ensure that you know what your guy can afford before
ordering if given the chance to order what you want. In other words be
considerate with hid finances when he takes you out just as you would with a
good friend or relative.
5.
Don’t talk about your ex’s or the dates you have
had because it can make your date uncomfortable as if you are still interested
in them.
6.
Make eye contacts when speaking to him/her. Don’t
let your eyes wander away because your date will feel you are not interested in
him/her.
7.
When you run into people in the process of
strolling around, keep the meeting brief. As a guy, introduce your date
immediately. Don’t get your time monopolized by the people you run into because
your date will feel abandoned.
8.
When you run into friends in dating or courtship
ensure that you do introduction in the following order: state the names of the
individuals being introduced and the relationship involved. Present a woman to
a man, then present the man to the woman e.g Meg this is Ken my course mate,
Ken this is Meg my love (or my fiance’).
NOTE:
(In terms of introduction, the type you do to your parents when you want to
introduce your potential wife or husband is definitely more formal and mature
than the above casual one. It calls for a lot of respect and formalities as practiced
in your culture).
9.
As a man, open the door of car or house and let her enter or come out
first before you do, after helping her with a chair. And when he does, the
woman must not forget to reciprocate with ‘’Thank you’’.
10.
In dating, expression of feelings through words
is important because the more partners talk the more they get to know each
other. But as a lady you must not talk too much in your first outing with a
guy. Even if you are talkative you must control yourself at least for the first
day so that the man will conclude that you are too forward.
11.
Avoid unnecessary teasing or jokes with him/her
until you know your partner’s background and their attitude towards jokes.
12.
Respect the guy’s privacy and leave his drawers
and closets until you are invited to open them.
13.
Don’t be too demanding by asking for all manner
of things. Otherwise your partner will see you as a burden especially if he can’t
meet your needs.
14.
In all, you must respect the wishes and
standards of your date as much as possible because he deserves it as much as
you deserve his care. In fact whether you realize it or not a man is always
judging you on your manners. He may not let you know that he is taking notice
of them but he does remember or evaluate the way you act towards him and
others.
HOW ABOUT
COURTSHIP.
It refers to the period of time during which a man
and a woman engage in a romantic relationship before marriage. Some of the tips
explained above in respect of dating are also very important to take note of
during courtship if the relationship must be successful.
The
information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding
and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to
grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will
definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog
may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special,
direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages
whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.
Alex
Oduanam
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