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The 14 Perfect Tips for a Successful Dating and Courtship...

THE 14 PERFECT TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL DATING AND COURTSHIP…
Dating simply refers to a romantic meeting that has been arranged with an opposite sex that you would like to have as a lover, wife or husband. Don’t forget that dating must start by having someone in mind to approach. I mean the person that attracts you or the person your heart is ‘melting’ for.
Research has shown that 70% of dating exercises end up in casual relationships while 30% or less ends up in marriages. Whichever way it would go you must not forget that dating is a period of watching someone whether he/she is a good material for a relationship or not. This is why you must endeavor to behave well during the exercise. Places to visit during the exercise maybe public restaurants, amusement parks, seminars, dinner parties, sporting events, hotel lobbies, beaches or any other places of interest. Wherever it maybe, the following tips can make your dating successful.

1.       Don’t always desire to be taken to the most expensive place in town because your guy may not be a millionaire, and chiefly so that you won’t look too expensive to go out with.
2.       Dress casually but modestly when going out on your first date. In all, ensure that you are attractive in whatever you put on.
3.       Don’t take your date to where you know you will meet your ex because the old memories may spoil your day.
4.       Don’t order the most expensive item on the menu for ordering sake. Ensure that you know what your guy can afford before ordering if given the chance to order what you want. In other words be considerate with hid finances when he takes you out just as you would with a good friend or relative.
5.       Don’t talk about your ex’s or the dates you have had because it can make your date uncomfortable as if you are still interested in them.
6.       Make eye contacts when speaking to him/her. Don’t let your eyes wander away because your date will feel you are not interested in him/her.
7.       When you run into people in the process of strolling around, keep the meeting brief. As a guy, introduce your date immediately. Don’t get your time monopolized by the people you run into because your date will feel abandoned.
8.       When you run into friends in dating or courtship ensure that you do introduction in the following order: state the names of the individuals being introduced and the relationship involved. Present a woman to a man, then present the man to the woman e.g Meg this is Ken my course mate, Ken this is Meg my love (or my fiance’).
NOTE: (In terms of introduction, the type you do to your parents when you want to introduce your potential wife or husband is definitely more formal and mature than the above casual one. It calls for a lot of respect and formalities as practiced in your culture).
9.       As a man, open the door of  car or house and let her enter or come out first before you do, after helping her with a chair. And when he does, the woman must not forget to reciprocate with ‘’Thank you’’.
10.   In dating, expression of feelings through words is important because the more partners talk the more they get to know each other. But as a lady you must not talk too much in your first outing with a guy. Even if you are talkative you must control yourself at least for the first day so that the man will conclude that you are too forward.
11.   Avoid unnecessary teasing or jokes with him/her until you know your partner’s background and their attitude towards jokes.
12.   Respect the guy’s privacy and leave his drawers and closets until you are invited to open them.
13.   Don’t be too demanding by asking for all manner of things. Otherwise your partner will see you as a burden especially if he can’t meet your needs.
14.   In all, you must respect the wishes and standards of your date as much as possible because he deserves it as much as you deserve his care. In fact whether you realize it or not a man is always judging you on your manners. He may not let you know that he is taking notice of them but he does remember or evaluate the way you act towards him and others.

HOW ABOUT COURTSHIP.

It refers to the period of time during which a man and a woman engage in a romantic relationship before marriage. Some of the tips explained above in respect of dating are also very important to take note of during courtship if the relationship must be successful.

The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam


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