Understand the DO's and DON'Ts of wooing a lady...
THE DOS AND DON’TS OF
WOOING A LADY
My
most brilliant achievement was my ability to persuade my wife to marry me.
(Winston
Churchill, 1874-1965, English Prime Minister)
Wooing a lady simply means persuading a lady for a
romantic relationship or marriage. Before the commencement of the exercise, some
situations require a preliminary inquiry as to whether the lady is already
engaged or not especially if you are not too close to the individual. You can
use flirting as well to inquire. This can forestall the frustration that
emanates from a lady’s disagreement with a man’s intentions.
Ø Due to the fact that wooing is mainly
done with the words of mouth, you must ensure that your mouth is well brushed
before approaching the lady of your choice because ladies hate mouth ordour a
lot. However, if brushing does not cure your mouth ordour ensure that a piece
of ‘trebor’ or any other sweet can neutralize your mouth as u speak. Don’t
forget to also deordourize your body in the case of body ordour.
Ø When you are set for the actions
ensure that you don’t approach the lady in front of or midst of a group people
because love is a private affair. On no account should you send a friend to
help you approach someone because it will show that you are not man enough. Above
all, anybody you cannot confidently speak to can hardly respect you.
Ø Don’t beat about the bush while talking
because you may loose your nerves; go straight to the point on what you want
and why you want it. Ensure that you are courageous and confident because
cowardice irritates ladies as they feel you are not man enough to be in-charge.
Ensure you have some enthusiasm in your voice as you speak. In short you must endeavor
to be lively as much as possible.
Ø If you are aiming at serious
relationship, do not lie to the lady by posing as a son of a king whereas you
are a son of one peasant farmer somewhere because you will regret it when the
truth is known to the lady. I hope you know how much ladies hates lies?
Ø If you are a low income earner at the
moment, don’t promise a lady heaven and earth in the name of relationship
because you will be indirectly negotiating for a miserable life. Present yourself
the way you are to her because true love is rooted in being accepted the way
you are. If she agrees, fine. If she doesn’t it’s not your fault; let life go
on as you continue with your search…
The
information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding
and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to
grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will
definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog
may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special,
direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages
whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.
Alex
Oduanam
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