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THE DOS AND DON’TS OF WOOING A LADY
My most brilliant achievement was my ability to persuade my wife to marry me.
(Winston Churchill, 1874-1965, English Prime Minister)

Wooing a lady simply means persuading a lady for a romantic relationship or marriage. Before the commencement of the exercise, some situations require a preliminary inquiry as to whether the lady is already engaged or not especially if you are not too close to the individual. You can use flirting as well to inquire. This can forestall the frustration that emanates from a lady’s disagreement with a man’s intentions.

Ø Due to the fact that wooing is mainly done with the words of mouth, you must ensure that your mouth is well brushed before approaching the lady of your choice because ladies hate mouth ordour a lot. However, if brushing does not cure your mouth ordour ensure that a piece of ‘trebor’ or any other sweet can neutralize your mouth as u speak. Don’t forget to also deordourize your body in the case of body ordour.
Ø When you are set for the actions ensure that you don’t approach the lady in front of or midst of a group people because love is a private affair. On no account should you send a friend to help you approach someone because it will show that you are not man enough. Above all, anybody you cannot confidently speak to can hardly respect you.
Ø Don’t beat about the bush while talking because you may loose your nerves; go straight to the point on what you want and why you want it. Ensure that you are courageous and confident because cowardice irritates ladies as they feel you are not man enough to be in-charge. Ensure you have some enthusiasm in your voice as you speak. In short you must endeavor to be lively as much as possible.
Ø If you are aiming at serious relationship, do not lie to the lady by posing as a son of a king whereas you are a son of one peasant farmer somewhere because you will regret it when the truth is known to the lady. I hope you know how much ladies hates lies?
Ø If you are a low income earner at the moment, don’t promise a lady heaven and earth in the name of relationship because you will be indirectly negotiating for a miserable life. Present yourself the way you are to her because true love is rooted in being accepted the way you are. If she agrees, fine. If she doesn’t it’s not your fault; let life go on as you continue with your search…


The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam


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