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It's Healthy To Argue, It's Healthy To Bicker In A Relationship, But It's Not Healthy To...


Like I will always say, we argue and disagree to agree. It is very healthy to argue, quarrel and disagree in a relationship. It is healthy to bicker. But it’s not healthy to have screaming matches. What I mean by this is; it’s not healthy shouting and screaming at each other with a high tone over a little argument. Some couples brag about ‘’never fighting’’. That’s nothing to brag about. It probably means that one of you is holding something in.

It is not your job to fix the person you love. You can’t fix them. You can only help them fix themselves. You can’t resolve their work issues or wipe away all of their insecurities or get their partners back together. All you can do is be there for them and help them through it. Getting frustrated about your inability to fix your partner will agitate their struggles and strain your relationship.

It is important to recognize that the person you are with has not always been that person. They have gone through things to make them that person. Appreciate and understand their past. Put them in context. Maybe he doesn’t express his feelings because his family is not particularly expressive, or maybe she is so insecure because her Ex was very critical. Be conscious of this.

Do not underestimate the power of thoughtfulness. Listen. Pay attention. There’s nothing more meaningful or memorable than mentioning something in passing and then having your partner bring it back up later.

Do not limit expressions of love to grand gestures. It’s impossible to keep up. Fancy dinners or luxury vacations are wonderful, but love does not have a dollar value. If given the option between a weekly sunset walk and an annual vacation, the majority will pick the weekly walk. Money does not show love. Gestures show love. A free gesture also holds value…

The information contained on this blog is written based on my own empirical understanding and is true for me at the time they were written. However, as I continue to grow in knowledge and understanding, what I perceived as the truth will definitely change, as a result of this – the information contained on this blog may not reflect my current outlook. Therefore, I am not liable for any special, direct, indirect, consequential, or incidental damages or any damages whatsoever, arising out of or in connection with the contents of this blog.

Alex Oduanam



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